you know what? at work, it's always taught that, i should be chirpy and then people will correspond. this is a skill that i cannot master at or outside work. when i think that people dun like to talk to me. how to be chirpy.? not chirpy, no topic to talk about. dun talk infer that dun like. dun like then not chirpy. it's a vicious cycle. idiot. how to get out of it?