impt things come first

> > One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'
> >
> > The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

it's taken from a story where it shows that the important things in life should fill your life first.. then there will be time for other smaller things..

when you have all ur big and small things already.. there's still space for cups of coffee with a friend.

i guess as asians, we grew up watching movies and serials about friendships. for guys maybe will watch a few jianghu or gangster show and be acquainted with brotherhood. i guess, sometimes we fail to realise that brothers are important but the bigger things in life is still more important. sometimes, we learnt lessons using a longer timeframe. haha..

previously i was talking to one of my friend on msn. and that's what he says.
"friends will get married and eventually, they will have no time for you. so why bother... "

haha.. i laughed.. and realise that one day that statement will be true.